I'm a judger. I know I do it. Actually, I know we all do it. Thankfully, I have the mind to keep my mouth closed about things most of the time. But, you should probably know, that there is a list of things out there that, even if I'm not mentioning, I'm probably judging you for. (Yes, I know it's not right...)
I've noticed that this is way worse since becoming a mother. I mean, to each his/her own, but, I'm still sitting here thinking "why in God's name would you do that?!?".
So, in case you are wondering, here are some of the worst offenses:
- Using various forms of social media to complain/talk about what a crappy financial situation you are in, and then using the same said social media outlets to check-in to at least 4 to 5 different eating establishments per week. Pack your darn lunch, go to the grocery store and cook your supper or shut up.
- If you have a child, by all means, please post lots of cute pictures of them on Facebook/Twitter/Instagram. Lord knows I do! But, when every.single.picture has your child with a pacifier in their mouth, and they are to the age where they should be learning to talk... I judge you. I don't mean to, but it happens anyway.
- If you own a business, and use a "z", a "k" or a "$" in place of any other appropriate letter, I will never enter said establishment (and do not expect your business to thrive or you to be able to read)
- We all mis-type and misspell words occasionally, but by using the phrase "I seen", you forever lose any and all credibility.
- There are certain professions that require you to be held to a higher standards, like it or not. So, if you are a pastor, maybe you should think twice before publically condemning people (via social media) who have different political and social opinions than you. Because I promise you, that is one sure fire way to NOT win people over to Christ.
But yeah, judging people is bad. You shouldn't do it. I'm a very bad example in this category. Always something to work on!
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